Change starts with YOU

Change starts with YOU.  This saying is pretty old.  We have heard it a billion times but when you literally hit a wall, THAT becomes your only hope. 

When nothing else makes you happy, one must start to evaluate from within to dig out the true reason for your discomfort.  Another tool I use is reading the Bible.  Out of everyone you know, God is the ONLY one that will love you unconditionally.   You will NEVER let Him down.  He wants to be your EVERYTHING!   From the time you open your eyes, from your snack, from that stupid joke, from that hot meal you eat, from that last conscious breath you take before going to bed.

Once you get the part of loving God with all your heart down pat, everything will flow.  You will learn your limits, your will learn what needs to change, you will be daring in making those choices and your life will change.  But remember, you cannot expect anyone to help you make those changes, you need to taste the bitter to enjoy the sweet.